Qoute 101

an ex sent me this qoute thru text...

Sometimes two people decide to be just friends
even if they still love each other...

and i often wonder why?
i suppose it's not love that'so hard to sustain...

but the COMMITMENT that complicates everything...

i wanted to reply but i am too tired having discussions, so i did not... this is why, i decided to put my thoughts in my blog instead, with this, i will not get any side comments, nor somebody who will negate what i have to say.... remember, this is my blog site, i can say anything i want to... hehehe....

for starters, i believe that for a relationship to work, it must have three things... LOVE, COMMUNICATION and COMMITMENT...


LOVE...
isn't it this is the sole reason why two persons decide to enter into a relationship? it is because they love each other...

with love, one can do things even those that they haven't done in their lives yet, just to please the person they love...
with love, people forget themselves and makes sure that their partner is their priority...
with love, one sets aside his beliefs and open his mind to other possibilities that his partner can offer him...

there are lots of things that one can do just because he LOVES this person....


COMMUNICATION...
as they always say, it takes two to tango... even tango dancers communicate among themselves while doing that dance... so much for two persons in a relationship... i cannot imagine a relationship without communication...

come to think of it, this does not only apply to romantic relationships, in any type of relationships that we have in our lives, communication is an important thing...

for without it, we cannot express our thoughts, emotions and ideas... with constant communicaton, two unique individuals try to understand each other's thoughts...

it is up to them how to effectively channel it...


COMMITMENT...
whats the purpose of you entering into a relationship if you do not have any plans of committing yourself to that person... to that person, you decided to love... to that person, you chose to be with... to that person, whom you want to share your life with... to that one person who have touched your lives, especially your heart, more than anybody could have done... with commitment, everything follows...

with commitment... you decide to love the person even if all of your friends tell you not to....
with commitment... you do things that will make this person happy...
with commitment... you talk things over when your life together starts to be shaky...
with commitment... you continue to hold on even if it is hurting, because you love person...
with commitment... you work things out with that person, so that things will not be that complicated for the both of you...
with commitment... you share your entire life with that person while still keeping your identity...
with commitment... you strive to be the best person for your partner...
with commitment... you give your trust to your partner no matter what the society dictates...
with commitment... you sacrificed everything, even to the point giving up your own happiness because what matters is that person is happy being with you...
with commitment... you put your mind, heart and soul to your relationship... you give your 100% to it... you share your happiness and love with that person...


Three things must be present in a relationship for it to last long... LOVE... COMMUNICATION... and COMMITMENT...